"After me, you come first."

It's an unselfish notion that means to truly give love, you have to first love yourself.

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Post Break-up Checklist

After going through a break-up, it's important to look back and learn from the good and the bad and accept accountability for things you have done and can change for the future.

Make a checklist of the things you will do in your next, as to not repeat the same mistakes, so you can be healthier and happier in the next relationship:

Here are some examples:

1. Never take your partner for granted. Appreciate them all the time.

2. Respect them and accept them for who they are. Don't try to change them.

3. Have emotional maturity and control. Respect the time they need to sort out their thoughts and feelings. You can't control others and their timing or feelings.

4. Make sure you're independent, emotionally and functionally - make sure your pillar is strong and tall.

5. Be flexible and compassionate. Always see the big picture and pick your battles carefully.

6. Don't be emotionally passive. When something bothers you, relay your thoughts in a controlled, mature way so that it doesn't fester and blow up later.

7. Know when to set boundaries. Don't let anyone take advantage of your love and genoristy.

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